Gender & Communication Frequency

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“Women act upon emotions, men act upon logic” –SchoolBoy

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Women and men don’t think alike

When communicating with women, you must communicate through their frequency of emotions, not logic.  There’s no way to logically and verbally tell a woman she should be attracted to you.  Instead, you must understand that women interpret the things we say and the things we do by the emotions we trigger in them.

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A few examples on this concept

When a man first meets a woman and decides to give her a bouquet of flowers on their first date.  The woman will interpret this gesture and say to herself “maybe he’s insecure about himself and feels he’s not good enough so he’s trying to buy my attraction with flowers”.

This kind of thinking may be conscious or subconscious in a woman’s mind, but either way she’ll think that way.  A kind gesture of giving flowers can be sending the wrong message.

A couple is dating, the woman calls the man and asks him to take her out to dinner.  The man says “I’m busy, maybe next time”. The woman will interpret this gesture and say to herself  “Err.. Hes a jerk for not taking me out tonight even though I’m bored out of my mind, but he probably has other things to do and I’m not on top of his priority list.  He’s a real man who has a life and I’m into that”.

Even though the man may seem to act like a jerk for not taking her out when she asks him to, it’s because he’s telling her that he’s not about to drop everything in his life just to be with her.  It shows indifference and establishes independance.

Women will always interpret your actions or words.  Upon understanding this concept, your success will dramatically improve with women.

-SchoolBoy

The Cliche of “I Love You”

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.“The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them.“ -Stephen King

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Words are easily uttered

The words “I Love You” have been used so many times it’s meaning has become virtually obsolete.  The definition and meaning of this overused word “Love” can mean different things to different people.  Most couples will say these three words to one another on a daily basis, while not knowing that every time they say the phrase, it has less and less meaning to it.

Actions speak louder than words

Which brings us to rule #4 in my 10 Rules of Seduction & Dating:  actions, not words.  If you truly love someone, show it through your actions, not words; your partner will appreciate it much more than a simple “I Love You”.  A person who truly loves another will never feel the need to express their love through words because they know it has been proven time and time again by their actions.  Remember that love is not a feeling, it’s an action.

-SchoolBoy