The Theory Behind Sexual Attraction

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“Attraction isn’t a choice, it’s a response.” -David DeAngelo

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What is sexual attraction?

Like dating guru David DeAngelo says, “attraction isn’t a choice, it’s a response”.  The basics of sexual attraction can be found through years of human evolution.  When a woman feels sexual attraction for a man, it’s because their natural instinctual urges have been triggered; there is absolutely nothing she can do about it.  No amount of logic or reasoning can cause her to lose that sexual attraction.

The goal of sexual attraction is to allow a male and a female to mate and reproduce in ensuring the survival of the human race.  How a woman chooses her mate is also programmed through evolution as well.  Women become sexually attracted to a man based on whether he will provide her with good genes in producing attractive offspring.  By ‘attractive offspring’, I don’t mean just physically, but psychologically as well.

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Attraction is ironic

Women are naturally sexually attracted to men who are attractive to other women.  They subconsciously know what traits are attractive to other women;  this is why women tend to be sexually attracted to the “alpha males”;  which we sometimes call the “jerks” or the “bad boys”.  Women feel sexual attraction to the alpha males just because other women are attracted to the alpha males.  Ironic isn’t it?

-SchoolBoy